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What is Style? Getting Started (part 1)


Posted by Dain, Thursday, August 23, 2007 7:09 AM (Eastern)

A most difficult question.

The philosophical answer: style is something ineffable, inimitable, it is how clothes are worn, not what clothes are worn.

But that isn't at all helpful.

Is it something you are born with? Or is it acquired? I do not know, I think it is both. You are born with style if your mother has style, as if taste were hereditary—I have noticed a certain correspondence, though an imperfect one, between mothers and daughters. And it is most certainly acquired. Mostly you learn by looking at good fashion, and making a lot of mistakes. A subscription to W (the only good American fashion magazine), and by the end of the year, if you have attended to your studies, your style IQ should have shot up at least 10 points.

But still, that doesn't tell you much.

Is it cultural? Americans take sluggishly to style, so if it's something easy to use, it'll become popular. Cult jeans, black nailpolish, Coco Mademoiselle, LV, Apple computers—fast food style, ready made, don't question it. It is easy to mistake money for taste, popularity for appropriateness, and there are some who are smart enough to see it and flaunt the opposite, never minding that to negate is also to affirm what one would deny. There's no point to it; true style is about following your own inner aesthetic, recognizing but not tied to cultural mores. Style is too personal to be defined in cultural terms.

It's easy to talk about being an individual. It's quite another thing to have the confidence to do so. Some women have it because they are beautiful, some because they are intelligent, others still because they are rich. The cause is not the point. If you behave like a queen, people start to believe you are one. It's a powerful trick, and a useful one. Remember, it is not what you wear, but how you wear it.

Here is an article, from a long ago issue of Elle (my emphasis, below, sorry I can't source it), which deeply inspired me, my theory of minimalism was sort of built on it:
    During my first month of work at a fashion magazine, my editor wore two items items day in, day out—a pair of skyscraper Manolo slingbacks in tangerine suede and lemony cashmere cardigan. They finished off informal French Connection sheaths, went cool and corporate with Chanel pencil skirts, added oomph to navy and gabardine trousers. And it was then that I learned an important lesson: The truly stylish rarely change their clothes. Sure, they occasionally dip them in filtered water tinged with Italian baby shampoo before leaving them to dry in cedar airing cupboards, but there's none of that wear-it-only-once-a-week nonsense that many of us have clung to since high school.

    Since that time, my objective each season has been to purchase a capsule wardrobe—a set of five basic pieces that are sufficiently directional to place me near the cutting-edge, but neutral enough to have a closet life of more than six months*.

    Frankly, it's no easy task, given my magpie tendencies. Yet, when I recall my sartorial exploits in the years before the conversion to capsuledom, I realize that I invariably wore a precious few items to death every season. My hunch is, that's the way most of us dress: Who didn't spend the late '80s topping leggings with a massive jacket? The trick to define your basic pieces proactively, not retroactively—and this requires a hard-nosed reckoning with your body, your career, your life. Call it fashion therapy. As is evidenced from the responses we received when we polled America's top style-setters, one woman's capsule wardrobe is another's Halloween costume. Streamlined, all-American Aerin Lauder would never trade closets with funkily foxy Candace Bushnell. There are, it would seem, no simple formulas.
Amen! I wish I could thank this woman, whoever she is, for having changed how I look at my wardrobe. Since then, I have done the same thing every season, including this one.

*I dare say when you know yourself, and your style, well enough, you can disregard trends entirely and just go for what you know you will love.

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August 23, 2007 9:03 AM, Blogger cmm said...

I'm almost embarrassed to say I remember when you posted that original article! :)

The past couple of weeks have found me thinking and working very hard on my own style. I belong to a "french chic" yahoo group. I've been reading through their "style files" and they are all about women figuring out their own personal styles. One of the questions that I came across and has stuck with me is
"What do I want my image to say to the world."
I've been working that question fairly hard lately, with good results.

 
August 23, 2007 4:16 PM, Blogger Colleen Shirazi said...

Hmmm...style is like art. If you have a group of artists, all influencing each other, the art gets a whole lot better. If you have one guy struggling alone in a basement, art can still be produced, but it won't be nearly as easily nor as prolifically, nor may it be done so well.

America...we are a culture of buy, buy, buy. That is part of our problem. We are encouraged into a mode of constant buying. That tends to mean we buy a lot of less expensive items, rather than waiting to buy fewer, possibly more expensive, but more well-thought-out items.

I wish I still had that copy of Cheap Chic. There's a sequel, which I haven't read; what I remember is the original book from the 1970's. It was sheer genius. They didn't tell you to get a black pencil skirt and diamond stud earrings (which would work, if there weren't 8,000,000 other women wearing the same thing). For that matter they didn't tell you to "invest" in a $2000 handbag. These are new concepts you know, they didn't exist a few years ago.

FWIW I've never known a genuinely wealthy person who wasn't cheap. lol It's a good thing.

 

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